Families in Sharjah often notice the same kinds of things before they reach out. The child struggles to hold a pencil the way other children do. Getting dressed in the morning takes far too long and usually ends in tears. Loud environments at school trigger reactions that take hours to settle. Everyday tasks that other children manage without thinking are genuinely hard for this child, and nobody has been able to explain why clearly enough to actually help.
For children with autism, daily tasks that most people do on autopilot can take real effort. Getting dressed, holding a pencil, managing a noisy lunch hall: these things involve sensory and motor demands that some children find genuinely hard. Occupational therapy looks at where those difficulties are coming from and figures out what kind of support actually helps in practice.
Asha Susan Mani offers occupational therapy for autism to families in Sharjah through online consultation or by visiting the Dubai clinic directly.

Children with autism do not all struggle with the same things. Some have significant sensory sensitivities that make everyday environments overwhelming. Others have fine motor difficulties that affect writing, drawing, and self-care tasks. Some have both, alongside behavioral patterns that make school and home routines unpredictable for the whole family.
Occupational therapy is directly relevant for:
Getting dressed, eating meals, brushing teeth, managing a school bag: these tasks are part of every child's day. For children with autism, the sensory and motor demands of these routines can be genuinely overwhelming in ways that are not obvious from the outside. When a child becomes distressed by a sock seam or struggles to manage a zip, there may be sensory or motor factors contributing to the difficulty. Understanding those factors can help determine what support may be appropriate.
Children with autism may find certain school environments difficult because of sensory, communication, behavioral, or other factors. Fluorescent lights, crowded hallways, classroom noise, or the texture of a school uniform may contribute to distress for some children. An occupational therapist can assess sensory needs and recommend appropriate strategies, while behavioral or developmental consultation may help address other factors affecting participation.
Handwriting, cutting, drawing, and manipulating small objects are skills that school assumes children have. For children with autism who have fine motor delays, the gap between what the classroom expects and what the child can physically manage creates daily frustration and academic difficulty. Addressing these difficulties may help make classroom tasks and participation more manageable, depending on the child's individual needs.
Sensory factors can sometimes contribute to behaviors such as hitting, running away, or shutting down in particular environments. These situations may also involve communication, environmental, or behavioral factors. Understanding what happens before and after the behavior can help families and schools identify appropriate accommodations and support.
A school may notice that a child is struggling without being able to identify the reasons behind the difficulty. A teacher's concern about a child who has difficulty remaining seated, avoids art activities, or covers their ears during assembly can be useful information to share with the relevant professionals when considering sensory, functional, behavioral, or developmental support.
The first thing that happens is a proper conversation with the parents, and it goes deeper than most families expect. Which tasks consistently fall apart? How does the child react when the environment changes around them? What support has already been put in place and what did it produce? All this, together with the developmental history, gives a complete picture of how the child has moved through different stages and where things started to feel harder than they should.
Any existing autism assessments, school reports, previous therapy documentation, or medical records are reviewed before the direct assessment begins. A child's history of how they have managed different environments, tasks, and transitions over time is clinically relevant and shapes the assessment process. Families who have paperwork should bring whatever they have.
The consultation looks at how the child is managing daily life. That means things like sensory responses, communication, self-care, behavior, and how the child is coping at home and at school. Any existing reports or observations from parents help build a clearer picture of where the difficulties are sitting. If occupational therapy is the right next step, families get specific guidance on what to look for and how to move forward.
The information gathered is considered together to build a clearer picture of the child's daily functioning and the factors that may be contributing to difficulties. The goal is to help families better understand which concerns may benefit from behavioural, developmental, occupational therapy, speech-language, school-based or other professional support.
The recommendations may include practical strategies for daily routines at home, guidance on discussing the child's needs with the school or nursery, and recommendations for further professional support where appropriate. Families can use these recommendations to understand the next steps and coordinate support around the child's needs.
Families who go through this process come away with:
The earlier a child's sensory and functional challenges are identified, the less likely they are to pile up into something harder to address later. A child who gets the right occupational therapy support in the toddler or preschool years has a very different school experience from one whose sensory needs go unrecognized until year three or four.
The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention is clear that early intervention for children with autism is linked to better long-term outcomes. The NHS makes a similar point about structured support that addresses the functional and sensory side of autism alongside communication and behavior.
That said, older children benefit too. A child who has spent years struggling with handwriting, classroom noise, or getting dressed in the morning has not missed the window. The right support at any age still produces real change. Earlier just means more time to build on it.
Asha Susan Mani is a BACB (USA) Certified Behavior Analyst and IBA-Certified clinician with more than 20 years of experience supporting children and families across the UAE. She has supported more than 7,000 children and families and has guided more than 2,000 school transitions. Her work includes behavioral and developmental assessment, ABA-based intervention, parent coaching, school consultation, and guidance around developmental concerns.
She uses an ABA-informed clinical framework that sits alongside the occupational therapy assessment. Sensory and functional challenges do not exist separately from behavioral patterns in children with autism, and a clinical approach that understands both produces recommendations that are more coherent and more usable than occupational therapy assessed in isolation.
Many families in Sharjah have multilingual home environments. The complexity of managing a developmental concern across two languages and two cultural frameworks is well understood here, and the support plan accounts for the child's full context rather than treating cultural and linguistic factors as complications to work around.

“Asha is doing wonderful work with children on the autism spectrum. She is highly professional in her approach, very systematic in her treatment design and interventions, and an excellent facilitator between home and school. Parents often report how quickly their children have transitioned into mainstream schooling after working under Asha’s guidance.”
“My appreciation for your outstanding efforts in helping so many children return to mainstream education. As you are aware, parents often face significant emotional challenges while raising such wonderful children, partly due to societal reactions and partly due to rigid systems. I can confidently say that you have done a great deal to ease that burden and support families through their journey.”
“Mrs. Asha has been working with our son, Ahmed Khan, and we have seen clear improvement over the past few months. Initially, Ahmed had frequent emotional outbursts, difficulty following instructions, short attention span, and struggled with transitions between activities. Mrs. Asha developed a structured plan and introduced simple, consistent strategies such as visual schedules, clear first–then instructions, positive reinforcement, and planned transition warnings. She also guided us on how to respond calmly and consistently during challenging behaviours at home. She regularly reviewed his progress, adjusted goals when needed, and ensured we were involved in every step of the process. Ahmed is now more settled, follows instructions better, and has improved in managing daily routines and transitions. We are very grateful for Mrs. Asha’s guidance and support.”
“Mrs. Asha has been supporting our daughter, Lavanya Nair (4 years old), who was diagnosed with ADHD and was facing significant behavioural challenges in nursery. Initially, Lavanya had difficulty sitting in class, frequent impulsive behaviours, emotional outbursts, and struggled with following group instructions. The nursery also reported concerns about her attention and participation in structured activities. Mrs. Asha conducted a detailed assessment and introduced a structured ABA-based plan in coordination with the therapy team. She implemented clear routines, visual supports, reinforcement strategies, and short, achievable task instructions to improve attention and compliance. Over a period of 4 months, we saw noticeable improvements. Lavanya is now more regulated in class, follows simple instructions better, and her tantrums have reduced significantly. We are very grateful to Mrs. Asha and her team for their consistent support and close collaboration.”
“Our son, Philip Cruz (3.5 years old), was referred to Mrs. Asha by his nursery, Chubby Cheeks Nursery, Dubai, due to concerns around limited communication, difficulty following group instructions, and frequent frustration during structured activities. When we started, Philip often struggled with transitions and would become upset during classroom routines. Mrs. Asha conducted a detailed assessment and introduced a structured behaviour plan using visual cues, consistent routines, and positive reinforcement strategies. She also worked closely with his ABA therapist and the nursery team to ensure a consistent approach across all environments. Within a few months, we noticed clear improvements. Philip is now more settled in class, follows instructions more consistently, and is gradually engaging better with peers and teachers. We are very grateful to Mrs. Asha for her guidance and practical strategies.”
“Our son, Arjun Menon (5 years old), was referred to Mrs. Asha by his pediatrician at Aster Clinic, Al Qusais, for ADHD-related concerns, including inattention, hyperactivity, and difficulty following instructions at home and school. Mrs. Asha conducted an assessment and introduced a structured behavior plan using visual schedules, clear routines, reinforcement strategies, and parent guidance. She also coordinated closely with the ABA therapist and school to ensure consistency across all settings. Within a few months, Arjun showed noticeable improvement in attention, behavior regulation, and daily routines. We are very grateful for Mrs. Asha’s support and structured approach.”
| With Occupational Therapy Support | Without Structured Support | |
|---|---|---|
| Sensory challenges | Identified, understood, and accommodated | Misread as behavioral and managed inconsistently |
| Daily routines | Gradually become more manageable as skills build | Continue to be a source of daily conflict and stress |
| School participation | Specific accommodations in place based on clinical assessment | School figuring it out without clinical guidance |
| Fine motor skills | Targeted, trackable therapy goals | Falling further behind without intervention |
| Family understanding | Clear clinical framework for why things are hard | Ongoing uncertainty about what is driving the difficulties |
| Child's daily experience | Building functional independence across settings | Struggling with the same tasks without the right support |
We provide autism therapy, speech therapy, occupational therapy, ABA therapy, and child development support to families in Al Nahda Sharjah, Al Taawun, Al Khan, Al Qasba, Al Majaz, Al Mamzar, Al Qusais, Muwaileh, Al Yarmook, and Abu Shagara, as well as surrounding areas within approximately 10 km of Al Nahda, Sharjah.
If daily tasks are a consistent source of difficulty, if school is raising concerns about participation or behavior, or if sensory reactions are disrupting your child's day in ways nothing so far has addressed, a clinical assessment is the clearest way to understand what is actually happening and what would genuinely help.
Families in Sharjah can access this service online or by visiting the Dubai clinic.